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Let’s connect, collaborate, or commiserate. This form isn’t just a box for questions—it’s a portal for humans who get it. Whether you're a fellow deep feeler, a brand interested in collaboration, someone moved by a blog post, or just here to say “same,” this space is for you.
📬 Send a message if you:
- Want to book Valerie for speaking, writing, podcast guest spots, or workshops
- Have feedback, questions, or a story to share
- Are interested in partnering with Chaotic Goodisms
- Need help navigating the site or our free resources
- Just want to connect because something here resonated
No bots, no B.S.—just real conversations and a shared commitment to building a life that doesn’t apologize for depth, nuance, or snack breaks.
Before you hit send… a few ground rules from the chaos desk
✨ This is a one-human show. Valerie reads every message, but response times vary depending on how much chaos is currently being juggled (ADHD brain says hi).
🧠 No free therapy — as much as we’d love to help everyone, this contact form is not the place to request clinical advice, crisis support, or trauma processing. (We love you. We also love boundaries.)
📩 For collaborations, podcast invitations, or speaking requests, please include as many details as possible so we can vibe-check accordingly.
🛠️ If you’re experiencing technical issues with the website or newsletter sign-up, please describe the problem clearly so we can fix it without needing a magnifying glass and a caffeine IV.
💡 Got a brilliant idea, resonant story, or unsolicited but thoughtful praise? Hit us with it. You may just make someone’s day.